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The Dawn - part 5 - God on Loneliness

After God had created the world and gave Adam his instructions, God said:

“'It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.'" - Genesis 2:18 NIV

God knew right from the start that man should not be alone. He knew from the start that man could not do life alone. We need people to interact with and to do this thing called life, and when that element is missing or infrequent - loneliness can come aboard and start whispering all kinds of things to us, making us feel worse, and that is not the way God wants it. But we also find something else out right from the very beginning.

After Adam and Eve ate from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil (which we will look at in the next post) and they were hiding from God, we see these words in Genesis 3:

“Then the man and his wife heard the sound of the Lord God as he was walking in the garden in the cool of the day, and they hid from the Lord God among the trees of the garden. But the Lord God called to the man, 'Where are you?'" - Genesis 3:8-9 NIV

God was there with them. He was walking in the garden looking for them. This feels like something that happened often, if not daily, because when God could not find Adam and Eve, He called out to them. 

God is establishing something here from the very start:

1) that He is always there - NO MATTER WHAT
God walked with Adam and Eve when all was going well, and God came alongside them when all was not so good. 

2) life is not meant to do alone
This is something over the last year and a half I have really come to know. Life changes. People come, and people go. Life can be lonely. But in those cases, lean on the people who are still there. 

If you go to a church, press in there. I have done it, and you know what I have found?  That there are people dealing with or who have dealt with the same thing in the past. 

If you don't go to church, reach out to a friend or friends and you just might re-open a dormant friendship.

Don't do life alone! It's just not good at all. 

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edited by Kay Beam
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