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Where is the Love?

Edited by Kay Beam

This post was prompted by a request that I received from a family member. She asked me to do a post on the passage noted above because she has a lot of people in her life dealing with the topic of the verses.

Please read the passage below from the Message translation of the Bible:

“So, no matter what I say, what I believe, and what I do, I’m bankrupt without love.

Love never gives up.
Love cares more for others than for self.
Love doesn’t want what it doesn’t have.
Love doesn’t strut,
Doesn’t have a swelled head,
Doesn’t force itself on others,
Isn’t always “me first,”
Doesn’t fly off the handle,
Doesn’t keep score of the sins of others,
Doesn’t revel when others grovel,
Takes pleasure in the flowering of truth,
Puts up with anything,
Trusts God always,
Always looks for the best,
Never looks back,
But keeps going to the end.
Love never dies.”
(I Corinthians 13:4-8, the Message) 

Love. There is a problem with love.

Back in 2003, the Black Eyed Peas asked “Where is the Love?” It was a good question then and it is still a relevant question today. In fact, I feel it to be more of a question that people ask now more than ever before. Throughout the song (a link to the lyrics is below) they pose different scenarios and ask the question; “Where is the Love?”

So I have to say that when we look at the actions of people in this world and the different things that break our hearts, we ask the same question; Where is the Love? There is fighting, war, murder, and other threats all over the news and in the media. We don’t have to look very far to find that this world is lacking love. That is the one thing that I’m sure we all can agree on. So, where is the love? How does this change? What can we do? Well, the answer is found in the song:

“Father, Father, Father help us
Send some guidance from above
'Cause people got me, got me questionin'
Where is the love (Love)” – lyrcis from “Where is the Love?”

In this song the last part of the chorus (that you just read) has the answer. We can see the guidance from above in the passage of Scripture that we read earlier. I see those words as a list of how to love and how love should look. Love should consist of those things. Those things are love. Jesus demonstrated all of those things throughout His time on the earth. Jesus loved the people who needed loved in a way that transcends all kinds of love. That same love is the love that Paul is writing about here in 1 Corinthians. In fact, he says the words “I’m bankrupt without love.” So, what should we do?

Love.

We should love.

If we can love the best that we can, the world will take notice. If we can love in the relationships that are going sour, when it seems like the love is gone and we have nothing left. If we can love even though the actions of the world display the opposite. If we can love that bully that won’t leave us alone. If we can love when it hurts. If we can love when it feels like it doesn’t matter. Then love will start to ripple through the world. The Bible tells us in this passage how to love and even though this is the Bible, I believe that many people can agree with the words that are there.

What the world needs is love. Love has to start somewhere.

Jesus tell us; “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’” (Matthew 22:37-39, NIV)

God is love. God’s love is unconditional. God’s love is for everyone. If you have any questions about the love of God, send me an email using the box to the right.


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